From: joeraymon
People
This is something we need to understand. We get ourselves sometimes workup for nothing.Please stay and be aware of your position in life.
Why Do We SHOUT ?
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Regards,
Joe
Joe
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Tuesday, March 15, 2011
No need to SHOUT - by a Chinese professor in mandarin & english
From: joeraymon
Please stay and be aware of your position in life.
Peringkat-peringkat isteri
From: joeraymon
Dapat bini seperti di bilangan 1 -- Syukur banyak5
Dapat bini seperti di bilangan 2 -- Syukur banyak2
Dapat bini seperti di bilangan 3 -- Syukur
Dapat bini seperti di bilangan 4 -- Kalau camni bukan bini tapi H 1 N 1
1. Isteri Siddiqin
Isteri yang tidak akan meminta apa-apa dari suaminya sekalipun yang perlu (dharuri). Apa yang disediakan suaminya, dia terima dengan penuh malu dan bersyukur. Kalau ada, adalah. Kalau tidak ada, dia bersabar. Tapi meminta tidak. Apatah lagi yang tidak perlu, kalau diberi pun dia tolak bahkan adakalanya yang perlu pun dia tolak dengan baik, dia lebih suka menolong suaminya. Itulah golongan yang bersifat orang yang Siddiqin. Golongan ini payah hendak dicari terutama di akhir zaman ini, macam hendak mencari belerang merah atau gagak putih. Ini adalah perempuan luar biasa.
2. Isteri Muqarrobin
Isteri yang tidak meminta dari suaminya kecuali yang perlu sahaja. Yang tidak perlu dia tidak akan memintanya bahkan kalau suaminya memberi yang tidak perlu dia tolak dengan baik. Tapi kalau yang diperlukan pun tidak ada, dia tetap sabar. Namaun dia tidak akan mendesak suaminya. Dia tetap bersabar dengan keadaan itu. Itulah golongan Muqarrobin. Golongan ini juga susah hendak dicari di zaman kebendaan ini, di zaman orang memburu dunia, di zaman orang memandang dunia adalah segala-galanya.
3. Isteri Solehin
Isteri yang meminta kepada suaminya yang perlu dan juga sekali-sekala meminta juga yang tidak perlu seperti ingin sedikit kehidupan yang selesa sama ada dari segi makan minum, tempat tinggal, kenderaan. Namun kalau suaminya tidak memberi, dia tetap sabar dan tidak pula menjadi masalah. Itulah dia golongan orang yang soleh.
4. Isteri Fasik
Isteri yang selalu sahaja meminta-minta bukan sahaja yang perlu, yang tidak perlu pun dia suka meminta-minta juga. Kalau diberi pun tidak pernah puas-puas, tidak pernah rasa cukup, sudah mewah pun tidak rasa cukup. Kalau tidak diberi menjadi masalah, dia merungut-rungut, marah-marah, sakit hati, merajuk hingga menjadi masalah dalam rumah tangga. Inilah dia golongan yang fasik. Isteri ini selalu sahaja derhaka dengan suami, apatah lagi dengan Tuhan.
Sikap, tindakannya, percakapannya selalu sahaja menyusahkan suaminya, membuat suaminya selalu serba salah dibuatnya. Berbagai-bagai kehendak diberi, berbagai-bagai kemahuannya terpaksa ditunaikan. Adakala pakaian terpaksa ditukar sebulan atau dua bulan sekali, asyik pergi shopping sahaja. Namun demikian tidak juga puas dan tidak juga merasa cukup. Macam-macam yang dia hendak. Akhirnya krisis rumahtangga tidak pernah berhenti, sentiasa bergolak, sentiasa bergelombang macam air laut yang tidak pernah berhenti-henti daripada bergelombang dan begelora. Lama-lama kelamaan bercerai juga. Kalau pun tidak bercerai kerana hendak menjaga air muka atau hendak menjaga nama baik atau tidak mahu anak porak peranda, tapi apalah ertinya rumahtangga yang begitu rupa. Dimanalah keindahannya lagi. Apalah bahagianya kalau gelombang dan gelora krisis tidak pernah rehat dan tenang. Apalah akan jadi kepada anak-anak melihat ibu bapa sentiasa macam kucing dengan anjing.
Semoga Allah menyatukan hati-hati kita, menjadikan kita saling mencintai karena Dia; sebagaimana dalam hadits yang diriwayatkan oleh Tirmidzi Rasululllah saw bersabda:
"Di sekitar Arsy ada menara-menara dari cahaya. Di dalamnya ada orang-orang yang pakaiannya dari cahaya dan wajah-wajah mereka bercahaya. Mereka bukan para nabi atau syuhada'. Para nabi dan syuhada' iri kepada mereka. Ketika ditanya para shahabat, Rasulullah menjawab, "Mereka adalah orang-orang yang saling mencintai karena Allah, saling bersahabat karena Allah dan saling kunjung karena Allah."
Dapat bini seperti di bilangan 2 -- Syukur banyak2
Dapat bini seperti di bilangan 3 -- Syukur
Dapat bini seperti di bilangan 4 -- Kalau camni bukan bini tapi H 1 N 1
1. Isteri Siddiqin
Isteri yang tidak akan meminta apa-apa dari suaminya sekalipun yang perlu (dharuri). Apa yang disediakan suaminya, dia terima dengan penuh malu dan bersyukur. Kalau ada, adalah. Kalau tidak ada, dia bersabar. Tapi meminta tidak. Apatah lagi yang tidak perlu, kalau diberi pun dia tolak bahkan adakalanya yang perlu pun dia tolak dengan baik, dia lebih suka menolong suaminya. Itulah golongan yang bersifat orang yang Siddiqin. Golongan ini payah hendak dicari terutama di akhir zaman ini, macam hendak mencari belerang merah atau gagak putih. Ini adalah perempuan luar biasa.
2. Isteri Muqarrobin
Isteri yang tidak meminta dari suaminya kecuali yang perlu sahaja. Yang tidak perlu dia tidak akan memintanya bahkan kalau suaminya memberi yang tidak perlu dia tolak dengan baik. Tapi kalau yang diperlukan pun tidak ada, dia tetap sabar. Namaun dia tidak akan mendesak suaminya. Dia tetap bersabar dengan keadaan itu. Itulah golongan Muqarrobin. Golongan ini juga susah hendak dicari di zaman kebendaan ini, di zaman orang memburu dunia, di zaman orang memandang dunia adalah segala-galanya.
3. Isteri Solehin
Isteri yang meminta kepada suaminya yang perlu dan juga sekali-sekala meminta juga yang tidak perlu seperti ingin sedikit kehidupan yang selesa sama ada dari segi makan minum, tempat tinggal, kenderaan. Namun kalau suaminya tidak memberi, dia tetap sabar dan tidak pula menjadi masalah. Itulah dia golongan orang yang soleh.
4. Isteri Fasik
Isteri yang selalu sahaja meminta-minta bukan sahaja yang perlu, yang tidak perlu pun dia suka meminta-minta juga. Kalau diberi pun tidak pernah puas-puas, tidak pernah rasa cukup, sudah mewah pun tidak rasa cukup. Kalau tidak diberi menjadi masalah, dia merungut-rungut, marah-marah, sakit hati, merajuk hingga menjadi masalah dalam rumah tangga. Inilah dia golongan yang fasik. Isteri ini selalu sahaja derhaka dengan suami, apatah lagi dengan Tuhan.
Sikap, tindakannya, percakapannya selalu sahaja menyusahkan suaminya, membuat suaminya selalu serba salah dibuatnya. Berbagai-bagai kehendak diberi, berbagai-bagai kemahuannya terpaksa ditunaikan. Adakala pakaian terpaksa ditukar sebulan atau dua bulan sekali, asyik pergi shopping sahaja. Namun demikian tidak juga puas dan tidak juga merasa cukup. Macam-macam yang dia hendak. Akhirnya krisis rumahtangga tidak pernah berhenti, sentiasa bergolak, sentiasa bergelombang macam air laut yang tidak pernah berhenti-henti daripada bergelombang dan begelora. Lama-lama kelamaan bercerai juga. Kalau pun tidak bercerai kerana hendak menjaga air muka atau hendak menjaga nama baik atau tidak mahu anak porak peranda, tapi apalah ertinya rumahtangga yang begitu rupa. Dimanalah keindahannya lagi. Apalah bahagianya kalau gelombang dan gelora krisis tidak pernah rehat dan tenang. Apalah akan jadi kepada anak-anak melihat ibu bapa sentiasa macam kucing dengan anjing.
Semoga Allah menyatukan hati-hati kita, menjadikan kita saling mencintai karena Dia; sebagaimana dalam hadits yang diriwayatkan oleh Tirmidzi Rasululllah saw bersabda:
"Di sekitar Arsy ada menara-menara dari cahaya. Di dalamnya ada orang-orang yang pakaiannya dari cahaya dan wajah-wajah mereka bercahaya. Mereka bukan para nabi atau syuhada'. Para nabi dan syuhada' iri kepada mereka. Ketika ditanya para shahabat, Rasulullah menjawab, "Mereka adalah orang-orang yang saling mencintai karena Allah, saling bersahabat karena Allah dan saling kunjung karena Allah."
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Sunday, March 13, 2011
Police Warning ON LIPSTICK MARKS ON FRONT OR REAR WINDSCREEN OF CAR
> Police Warning ON LIPSTICK MARKS
> ON FRONT OR REAR WINDSCREEN OF CAR
>
>
> Warning..!!!! Warning..!!!!
>
> Just last weekend on Friday night we parked in a public
> parking area.
> As we drove away I noticed a lipstick mark in the shape of
> a woman's lips on the front window of the car. We thought it
> was a joke and just laughed at it.
> When I tried to wash it off, the marks didn't come easily
> as it was waterproof.
> Luckily my friends told me to get back into the car as it
> could be someone waiting for me to get out of the car.
>
> The very next day, I parked my car at the same parking area
> and when we returned after our shopping, my car was missing.
> I had to make a police report the stolen car and forward an
> insurance claim .
>
> Then we received this email yesterday:
>
> WARNING FROM POLICE
>
> THIS APPLIES TO BOTH WOMEN AND MEN
>
> BEWARE OF LIPSTICK PRINTS ON THE FRONT OR BACK WINDOW OF YOUR VEHICLE—NEW WAY TO DO CARJACKINGS (NOT A JOKE)'
>
> Heads up everyone! Please, keep this circulating.....
> You walk across the parking lot, unlock your car and get
> inside.
> When you get into your car, you notice a lipstick mark on
> the front or back windscreen. Many drivers do not take this
> seriously and end up just wiping those lipstick stains off.
>
> This is a new syndicate making their rounds in Malaysia .
> This lipstick stain is a marking for the syndicate members
> to identify which car to be stolen or car jacked. This new
> method has been discovered already in Penang , Malacca , KL
> and JB.
>
> Be careful if you see the lipstick mark on your windscreen.
> This means your car has already been marked and could be
> stolen from under your very eyes , even in the car park.
> You are advised not to leave your parking ticket in the car
> in any carpark and if you discover that your car had already
> been marked by the lipstick stain, please be advised to
> install a reputable alarm system in your car to deter the
> thieves.
>
> BEWARE OF THIS NEW SCHEME THAT IS NOW BEING USED...
>
> If you see a lipstick stain on your window, don't just
> ignore it.
> And be thankful that you read this e-mail.
> I hope you will forward this to friends and family.
>
>
> Please keep this going and tell all your friends
> ON FRONT OR REAR WINDSCREEN OF CAR
>
>
> Warning..!!!! Warning..!!!!
>
> Just last weekend on Friday night we parked in a public
> parking area.
> As we drove away I noticed a lipstick mark in the shape of
> a woman's lips on the front window of the car. We thought it
> was a joke and just laughed at it.
> When I tried to wash it off, the marks didn't come easily
> as it was waterproof.
> Luckily my friends told me to get back into the car as it
> could be someone waiting for me to get out of the car.
>
> The very next day, I parked my car at the same parking area
> and when we returned after our shopping, my car was missing.
> I had to make a police report the stolen car and forward an
> insurance claim .
>
> Then we received this email yesterday:
>
> WARNING FROM POLICE
>
> THIS APPLIES TO BOTH WOMEN AND MEN
>
> BEWARE OF LIPSTICK PRINTS ON THE FRONT OR BACK WINDOW OF YOUR VEHICLE—NEW WAY TO DO CARJACKINGS (NOT A JOKE)'
>
> Heads up everyone! Please, keep this circulating.....
> You walk across the parking lot, unlock your car and get
> inside.
> When you get into your car, you notice a lipstick mark on
> the front or back windscreen. Many drivers do not take this
> seriously and end up just wiping those lipstick stains off.
>
> This is a new syndicate making their rounds in Malaysia .
> This lipstick stain is a marking for the syndicate members
> to identify which car to be stolen or car jacked. This new
> method has been discovered already in Penang , Malacca , KL
> and JB.
>
> Be careful if you see the lipstick mark on your windscreen.
> This means your car has already been marked and could be
> stolen from under your very eyes , even in the car park.
> You are advised not to leave your parking ticket in the car
> in any carpark and if you discover that your car had already
> been marked by the lipstick stain, please be advised to
> install a reputable alarm system in your car to deter the
> thieves.
>
> BEWARE OF THIS NEW SCHEME THAT IS NOW BEING USED...
>
> If you see a lipstick stain on your window, don't just
> ignore it.
> And be thankful that you read this e-mail.
> I hope you will forward this to friends and family.
>
>
> Please keep this going and tell all your friends
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Friday, March 11, 2011
Mesyuarat
Assalam Brader yang Dikasihi,Jangan lupa temujanji kita pd 13 Mac 2011 di Wisma Transit untuk bermesyuarat.Di wisma tu ada cafe, rasenye hari Ahad pun bukak. Sesiapa yg dari jauh and tak sempat breakfast leh breakfast kat cafe. Tapi kita pun ada BRUNCH kt tempat meeting tu disediakan masa rehat kul 1030. Pepagi tu kite sembang jelah dulu. Ok jumpa di sana. WassalamSaya yang berusaha untuk meraikan Fuad Hamzah AJK Keraian AFATS
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BRADER G8 KEMBALI KERAHMATULLAH
> From: Mohamad Zin Mokhtar
> Date: Friday, March 11, 2011, 10:54 AM
> Assalamualaikum,
>
> Berita diterima pada jam 10 pg tadi menyatakan butiran berikut:
>
> a. 530442 APP ABDUL HADIB BIN WAHAB (Kdr dlm APMM).
> b. Meninggal dunia akibat terjatuh dlm bilik air kapal APMM.
> c. Lokasi; Kuantan pada jam 0850 pg tadi.
> d. Asal arwah: Rembau, Negeri Sembilan.
> e. Butiran jenazah/pengkebumian: Masih belum diperolehi.
>
> Kepada skot G8, sila standby untuk ziarah/penghormatan terakhir setelah
> butiran lanjut diperolehi.
> * ALFATEHAH, semoga roh arwah ditempatkan dlm golongan yg beramal soleh.
> Amin.
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
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Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Saman Ekorrrrrrr
From: joeraymon
| Kerajaan tak tahu beza notis dengan saman |
| Hazayani Zakaria |
| KUALA LUMPUR, 8 Mac: Kegagalan pihak kerajaan khususnya Jabatan Pengangkutan Jalan (JPJ) membezakan di antara notis dan saman dianggap sebagai memalukan. |
Ahli Parlimen Pokok Sena, Datuk Mahfuz Omar berkata, kerajaan juga gagal mematuhi tafsiran yang dibuat oleh Mahkamah Tinggi Kuching berhubung Akta Undang-undang Pengangkutan Jalan Seksyen 17 (1) (D).__,_._,___
Always recheck the number before dialling
From: joeraymon
Always recheck the number before dialling
Always recheck the number before dialling...........................
'Hello?' 'Hi, honey. This is Daddy. Is Mommy near the phone?' 'No Daddy. She's upstairs in the bedroom with Uncle Paul.' ***Brief Pause*** Daddy says, 'But honey, you haven't got an Uncle Paul.' 'Oh yes I do, and he's upstairs in the room with Mommy, right now.' ***Brief Pause.*** 'Uh, okay then, this is what I want you to do. Put the phone down on the table, run upstairs and knock on the bedroom door and shout to Mommy that Daddy's car just pulled into the driveway.' 'Okay Daddy, just a minute.' A few minutes later the little girl comes back to the phone. 'I did it Daddy' And what happened honey?' 'Well, Mommy got all scared, jumped out of bed with no clothes on and ran around screaming. Then she tripped over the rug, hit her head on the dresser and now she isn't moving at all!' 'Oh my God!!! What about your Uncle Paul?' 'He jumped out of the bed with no clothes on, too. He was all scared and he jumped out of the back window and into the swimming pool. But I guess he didn't know that you took out the water last week to clean it. He hit the bottom of the pool and I think he's dead.' ***Long Pause*** ***Longer Pause*** ***Even Longer Pause*** Then Daddy says, 'Swimming pool ?? We dont have a swimming pool !! Ah, is this 486-5731 ??' No, this is 486-5713.... . ' SORRY WRONG NUMBER !' |
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Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Marriage
From: joeraymon
No war, no gain
Marriage - Part I
Typical macho man married typical good-looking lady and after the wedding, he laid down the following rules:
"I'll be home when I want, if I want and at what time I want and I don't expect any hassle from you. I expect a great dinner to be on table unless I tell you that I won't be home for dinner. I'll go hunting, fishing, boozing and card-playing when I want with my old buddies and don't you give me a hard time about it. Those are my rules. Any comments?"
His new bride said, "No, that's fine with me. Just understand that there will be sex here at seven o'clock every night ......... whether you're here or not."
(DAMM SHE'S GOOD!)
Marriage (Part II)
Husband and wife had a bitter quarrel on the day of their 40th wedding anniversary!
The husband yells, "When you die, I'm getting you a headstone that reads: "Here Lies My Wife - Cold As Ever "
"Yeah?" she replies. "When you die, I'm getting you a headstone that reads: "Here Lies My Husband Stiff At Last"
(HE ASKED FOR IT!)
Marriage (Part III)
Husband (a doctor) and his wife are having a fight at the breakfast table. Husband gets up in a rage and says, "And you are no good in bed either," and storms out of the house. After sometime, he realizes he was nasty and decides to make amends and rings her up. She comes to the phone after many rings, and the irritated husband says, "what took you so long to answer the phone?"
She says, "I was in bed."
"In bed this early, doing what?"
"Getting a second opinion!"
(YEP, HE HAD THAT ONE COMING, TOO!)
Marriage (Part IV)
A man has six children and is very proud of his achievement. He is so proud of himself, that he starts calling his wife, "Mother of Six" in spite of her objections. One night, they go to a party. The man decides that it's time to go home and wants to find out if his wife is ready to leave as well. He shouts at the top of his voice, "Shall we go home 'Mother of Six?'
His wife, irritated by her husband's lack of discretion, shouts right back, "Anytime you're ready, Father of Four."
(RIGHT ON, LADY!)
Marriage (Part V) The Silent Treatment
A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 AM for an early morning business flight. Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, "Please wake me at 5:00 AM." He left it where he knew she would find it. The next morning, the man awoke, only to discover it was 9:00 AM and he had missed his flight. Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife hadn't awakened him when he noticed a piece of paper by the bed.The message on the paper read, "It is 5:00 AM. Wake up."
Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.
God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece
Monday, March 7, 2011
POWER OF MONEY By Adam Khoo
BUAT IKTIBAR... YANG BAIK JADIKAN TAULADAN DAN KALAU ADA YANG TAK BAIK JADIKAN SEMPADAN..
Power Of Money -
Power of Money,
By Adam Khoo
( Singapore 's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires'). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.
Power Of Money -
inspirational....
By Adam Khoo
( Singapore 's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)
Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.
Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is travelling economy?' My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.
This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth (which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self Made Millionaires'). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so many people never become rich because the moment that earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.
Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today I save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support). Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).
I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2 year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and D ram a without thinking twice.
When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur's Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self made thought like me. Many of them with net worth well over $5m,travelled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis, Mercs, BMWs..
I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation.
Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.
Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class. Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.
Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..
Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.
What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired some one's life.
What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.
I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing,trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.
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Saturday, March 5, 2011
Lagi Komen Saman Ekor
Saman had laju tu bagus juga sebagai mengingatkan kita supaya jangan memandu terlalu laju, ianya bolih membahayakan bukan saja diri kita malah juga kepada pengguna jalanraya/ lebuhraya yang lain. Maklumlah sebagai makhlukNYA yang selalu leka, banyak undang-undang dan peraturanNYA yang kita langgari. Ini kan pula undang-undang buatan manusia. Maka jadikan lah saman itu sebagai muhasabah diri. Tapi ini BUKAN isunya...
Isunya ialah saman ekorrrrrr, bagi brader yang pernah memandu di Denmark, anda tidak disaman kerana memandu laju pada kesalahan pertama. Anda hanya di beritahu berapa kelajuan dan diberi peringatan supaya jangan melakukan kesalahan yang sama pada masa depan.
Manakala kalau di Abu Dhabi ni, kenderaan pengangkutan awam (bas,van, teksi dll) memang tidak di benarkan dipandu menggunakan dua lorong tengah sebelah kiri. Sebab ada 3 hingga 4 lorong lagi di sebelah kanan. Jumlah saman berbeza; dari serendah 200 hingga 1200 dirham bergantung kepada kesalahan. Saman 'on the spot', tak ada saman ekor.
Kita ni kan makhluk yang paling mulia, kita mana ada ekor. Tapi janganlah kata kita tidak perlu undang-undang dan peraturan, sebab haiwan dalam hutan pun ada peraturan mereka sendiri. Terima kasih kalau ada yang terasa.
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Isunya ialah saman ekorrrrrr, bagi brader yang pernah memandu di Denmark, anda tidak disaman kerana memandu laju pada kesalahan pertama. Anda hanya di beritahu berapa kelajuan dan diberi peringatan supaya jangan melakukan kesalahan yang sama pada masa depan.
Manakala kalau di Abu Dhabi ni, kenderaan pengangkutan awam (bas,van, teksi dll) memang tidak di benarkan dipandu menggunakan dua lorong tengah sebelah kiri. Sebab ada 3 hingga 4 lorong lagi di sebelah kanan. Jumlah saman berbeza; dari serendah 200 hingga 1200 dirham bergantung kepada kesalahan. Saman 'on the spot', tak ada saman ekor.
Kita ni kan makhluk yang paling mulia, kita mana ada ekor. Tapi janganlah kata kita tidak perlu undang-undang dan peraturan, sebab haiwan dalam hutan pun ada peraturan mereka sendiri. Terima kasih kalau ada yang terasa.
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Contoh Komen Saman Ekor
Itu memang sistem di Malaysia. Polis keluar saman......yang kena saman laaa pulak kena buktikan yang bukan dia yang buat salah. Kalau sistem di Jerman......polis datang jumpa orang yang disyaki buat kesalahan siap dengan gambar lagi sebagai bukti. Kat Malaysia orang yang kena saman lahhhh yang terpaksa cari bukti......kalau senang tak per jugak.
Ada setengah tempat seperti di kawasan Sabak Bernam. 20 tahun dulu satu lane jadi kawasan kampung dihadkan 60kmj. Sekarang dua lanes jalan cantik masih had 60kmj. Kenape jadi begini.....adakah disebabkan status kampung tersebut masih tak berubah ataupun memang dia tempat lubuk cari pendapatan??? memang misteri.........
DAH BANYAK KALI SANGAT KENA SAMAN KAT KAWASAN NIHHHH........
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Ada setengah tempat seperti di kawasan Sabak Bernam. 20 tahun dulu satu lane jadi kawasan kampung dihadkan 60kmj. Sekarang dua lanes jalan cantik masih had 60kmj. Kenape jadi begini.....adakah disebabkan status kampung tersebut masih tak berubah ataupun memang dia tempat lubuk cari pendapatan??? memang misteri.........
DAH BANYAK KALI SANGAT KENA SAMAN KAT KAWASAN NIHHHH........
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Program Perarakan Aset dan Demo Kepakaran TD pada 6 Mac 2011 di Dataran Merdeka
Program Perarakan Aset dan Demo Kepakaran TD pada 6 Mac 2011 di Dataran Merdeka
0900 - Perarakan Kend dan Aset TD Bermula
( Lebih 200 aset dan kend TD akan berarak)
- Terbang Lintas Heli Pasukan Udara TD
0940 - Demon Kepakaran TD - Terjun Bebas - Red Worrior - Tatu - Unit Lawan KeganasanPameran Statik dan Promosi Kerjaya TD - 0900 - 1600
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0900 - Perarakan Kend dan Aset TD Bermula
( Lebih 200 aset dan kend TD akan berarak)
- Terbang Lintas Heli Pasukan Udara TD
0940 - Demon Kepakaran TD - Terjun Bebas - Red Worrior - Tatu - Unit Lawan KeganasanPameran Statik dan Promosi Kerjaya TD - 0900 - 1600
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Friday, March 4, 2011
Kubang Kerian
Mencari kuih juga nasi untuk sarapan
Macam mana jumpa tak usah hairan
Sudah rezeki telah ditetapkan
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Saman Ekor
Ramai yang masih kabur dan tidak faham hak mereka sebagai rakyat Malaysia. Perlembagaan Persekutuan adalah undang-undang tertinggi Negara. Perlembagaan Persekutuan menjamin hak setiap rakyat Malaysia tanpa mengira agam, kaum, bangsa dan juga fahaman politik. Semua warganegara dijamin hak yang sama.
Salah satu hak yang dijamin oleh Perlembagaan Persekutuan ialah hak rakyat terhadap harta. Ini disebut dalam Perkara 13 Perlembagaan Persekutuan.
Perkara 13 Perlembagaan Persekutuan
Hak terhadap harta.
(a) Tiada seseorang pun boleh dilucutkan hartanya kecuali mengikut undang-undang.
(b) Tiada sesuatu undang-undang pun boleh membuat peruntukan bagi mengambil atau menggunakan harta-harta dengan paksa dengan tiada pampasan yang mencukupi.
Selalunya Perkara 13 ini digunakan di dalam kes pengambilan tanah melalui Akta Pengambilan Tanah 1960. Sebenarnya Perkara 13 ini bukan sahaja melibatkan harta tak alih seperti tanah, tetapi meliputi harta alih seperti kenderaan. Justeru penafian hak memperbaharui cukai jalan dan lesen memandu oleh Jabatan Pengangkutan Jalan (JPJ) juga sebenarnya termasuk di dalam penafian hak rakyat terhadap harta. Alasannya jika seseorang rakyat itu dihalang dari memperbaharui cukai jalan kenderaan mereka yang menyebabkan kenderaan itu tidak boleh digunakan maka rakyat itu telah dinafikan haknya terhadap harta.
Jika seseorang rakyat telah dinafikan hak mereka menggunakan harta (kenderaan) mereka tanpa alasan yang berlandaskan peraturan dan undang-undang maka Perkara 13 (b) menyatakan bahawa pampasan hendaklah diberikan. Ini bermaksud jika JPJ menghalang seseorang memperbaharui cukai jalan yang menyebabkan kenderaan tidak boleh digunakan, maka JPJ hendaklah membayar pampasan kepada pemilik kenderaan tersebut.
Hujah ini adalah bersandarkan keputusan kes Leonard Lim Yaw Chiang lwn Director of Jabatan Pengangkutan Jalan Negeri Sarawak yang telah diputuskan pada tahun 2009. Di dalam kes ini, seorang rakyat bernama Leonard Lim Yaw Chiang telah disenarai hitam dan dihalang oleh JPJ Sarawak dari memperbaharui cukai jalan kereta beliau. Beliau telah memohon kepada Mahkamah Tinggi Kuching untuk memutuskan bahawa tindakan JPJ menyenarai hitam dan menghalang beliau memperbaharui cukai jalan adalah salah. Beliau juga memohon gantirugi daripada JPJ di atas kehilangan penggunaan kereta beliau selama kereta tersebut tidak boleh digunakan kerana tiada cukai jalan.
Mahkamah telah memutuskan bahawa JPJ tidak boleh menyenarai hitam kenderaan di atas suatu kesalahan yang belum dibuktikan di Mahkamah. Tindakan JPJ menyenarai hitam diputuskan telah bertentangan dengan Perkara 13 Perlembagaan. JPJ juga telah diarahkan membayar gantirugi kepada pemohon dalam kes itu kerana kesusahan beliau tidak dapat menggunakan kenderaan sehingga terpaksa menyewa kenderaan lain.
Justeru di sini ingin dimaklumkan kepada pemandu-pemandu dan pemilik-pemilik kenderaan yang dinafikan hak mereka memperbaharui cukai jalan dan lesen memandu, bahawa hak anda dilindungi oleh Perlembagaan. Pihak berkuasa tidak boleh sewenang-wenang menafikan hak anda.
Berbalik kepada tawaran Kerajaan memberikan diskaun pembayaran saman sehingga hari ini 28/2/2011. Ingin dimaklumkan bahawa tindakan ini tetap salah. Isu utamanya ialah bukan jumlah bayaran kompaun atau denda itu RM300 atau RM150 atau pun RM50. Isu utamanya adalah, ADAKAH SESEORANG ITU BENAR-BENAR MELAKUKAN KESALAHAN YANG DIDAKWA SEHINGGA MEREKA WAJIB MEMBAYAR DENDA?
Perlu diambil perhatian bahawa untuk menguatkuasakan sesuatu peraturan dan undang-undang, sesebuah pihak berkuasa hendaklah juga mengikut peraturan dan undang-undang. Saman tidak boleh tertunggak. Jika ada yang tertunggak maka ianya bukan saman. Saman hendaklah dikemukakan di Mahkamah. Orang yang disaman (OKS) hendaklah diserahkan saman dan diperintahkan hadir ke Mahkamah untuk menjawap saman itu. Jika OKS mengaku salah maka mahkamah akan memerintahkan OKS itu membayar denda. Jika denda dibayar maka saman itu selesai dan tidak akan tertunggak. Jika saman diserahkan kepada OKS tetapi OKS tidak hadir ke Mahkamah, maka mahkamah akan keluarkan waran tangkap suapaya OKS hadir mahkamah. Maka proses yang sama akan berlaku iaitu OKS akan ditanya mangakui kesalahan atau meminta bicara. Jika mengaku maka akan diarahkan supaya bayar denda bagi saman itu. Maka selesailah saman itu. Tidak tertunggak. Jika tidak mengaku maka akan dibicarakan. Bergantung kepada keputusan mahkamah, jika didapati salah selepas bicara, maka akan diperintahkan untuk bayar denda. Selesai lah saman itu. Jika tidak bersalah maka luput juga samann itu. Tidak tertunggak.
Soalannya kenapa ada saman tertunggak? Jawapannya pertama kerana saman-saman itu tidak pernah dibawa ke Mahkamah. Kedua kerana yang dikatakan saman itu sebenarnya bukan saman tetapi notis sahaja.
Saman Ekor yang dikatakan saman ini sebenarnya bukan saman tetapi sekadar notis kepada pemilik kenderaan meminta maklumat pemandu yang dikatakan memandu melebihi hadlaju. Notis ini juga disertakan tawaran kompaun jika pemilik kenderaan mengaku melakukan kesalahan. Ia dikeluarkan di bawah Seksyen 115 Akta Pengangkutan Jalan 1987 atau dikenalai dengan Notis Pol 170A. Jika pemilik tidak mengaku kesalahan maka kompaun tidak perlu dibayar kerana kompaun itu hanyalah tawaran. Jika pemilik tidak membayar kompaun sepatutnya pemilik disaman supaya hadir ke Mahkamah bagi menjawap tuduhan memandu melebihi hadlaju. Kemudian proses mahkamah yang dijelaskan sebelum ini akan berlaku. Maka saman itu akan selesai dan tidak tertunggak. Masalah timbul apabila pihak berkuasa terus menghukum pemilik supaya membayar kompaun sedangkan kesalahan tidak dibuktikan. Kompaun bukan denda tetapi tawaran. Dendan hanya boleh dikeluarkan dan diarahkan oleh Mahkamah. Bukan Polis dan bukan JPJ. Inilah penyalahgunaan kuasa dan peraturan oleh pihak berkuasa. Mereka bertindak melebihi kuasa yang diberikan. Mereka bertindak sebagai penghukum sedangkan tugas itu hanya ada pada Mahkamah.
Justeru kepada semua rakyat Malaysia, ketahui hak anda, jangan mudah terpedaya dengan tawaran dan penindasan. Gunakan hak anda... TIADA SIAPA BOLEH MEMAKSA ANDA MEMBAYAR SESUATU YANG ANDA TIDAK LAKUKAN. Anda Mampu Mengubahnya.
Bagaimana JPJ boleh menhalang pembaharuan cukai jalan?
1) Seksyen 17(1)(d) Akta Pengangkutan Jalan 1987 (Pindaan) 2010
JPJ berkuasa menghalang seseorang melakukan apa-apa transaksi termasuk perbaharui cukai jalan tetapi setelah JPJ BERPUASHATI bahawa seseorang ada perkara yang belum selesai dengan JPJ dan Polis.
Bagaimana JPJ hendak BERPUASHATI?
2) Seksyen 17(2) Akta Pengangkutan Jalan 1987 (Pindaan) 2010
JPJ hendaklah memberikan peluang kepada seseorang membuat representasi. Ini bermaksud JPJ hendaklah menjalankan siasatan adakah seseorang itu ada perkara yang belum selesai. Maka semua pihak perlu hadir iaitu pemilik kenderaan, JPJ dan Polis yang mengeluarkan saman. Perlu disiasat adakah saman yang dikatakan ada kepada seseorang itu betul atau tidak. Sudah dibuktikan di mahakamh atau tidak. Jika tidak maka JPJ tidak boleh menyenarai hitam. Inilah maksud BERPUASHATI
3) Seksyen 17(5) Akta Pengangkutan Jalan 1987 (Pindaan) 2010
Jika dihalang daripada perbaharui cukai jalan maka Pengarah JPJ hendaklah maklumkan kepada Ketua Pengarah pengangkutan, di mana Ketua Pengarah hendaklah maklumkan secara bertulis dalam tempoh 14 hari kepada pemilik kenderaan tentang alasan halangan dibuat ke atas pemilik. Adakah notis ini pernah dikeluarkan kepada pemilik?
Jika anda dihalang daripada perbaharui cukai jalan tanpa alasan yang sah anda boleh:
a) Minta alasan bertulis daripada JPJ kenapa anda dihalang.
b) Minta JPJ perbaharui cukai jalan dengan segera jika alasan bertulis itu tidak munasabah dan tidak betul.
c) Jika JPJ enggan mematuhi permintaan anda, anda boleh menyaman/menuntut di Mahkamah untuk gantirugi kehilangan penggunaan kenderaan anda dan kesusahan anda kerana tidak boleh menggunakan kenderaan.
Zulhazmi Shariff ialah Penasihat Undang-Undang Kempen Anti Saman Ekor (KASE)
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RICHEST MAN IN THE WORLD!!!!!! & Why do we shout in anger?
RICHEST MAN IN THE WORLD!!!!!! & Why do we shout in anger?
A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do
people shout at each other when they are upset?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose
our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?'
asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a
soft voice?
Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally, he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other,
their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must
shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the
stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that
great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love?
They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why?
Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is
very small...' The saint continued, 'When they love each other
even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they
get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even
need not whisper, they only look at each other and that is all.
That is how close two people are when they love each other..'
MORAL:
When you argue, do not let your hearts get distant, do not say
words that distance each other more, else there will come a day
when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to
return.
Allah Says in Holy Quran.
Chapter 42 Verse 37:
[42.37] And those who. shun the great sins and indecencies, and whenever they are angry they forgive.
A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do
people shout at each other when they are upset?'
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose
our calm, we shout for that.'
'But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?'
asked the saint. 'Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a
soft voice?
Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'
Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the saint.
Finally, he explained, 'When two people are angry at each other,
their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must
shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the
stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that
great distance.'
Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love?
They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why?
Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is
very small...' The saint continued, 'When they love each other
even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper and they
get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even
need not whisper, they only look at each other and that is all.
That is how close two people are when they love each other..'
MORAL:
When you argue, do not let your hearts get distant, do not say
words that distance each other more, else there will come a day
when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to
return.
Allah Says in Holy Quran.
Chapter 42 Verse 37:
[42.37] And those who. shun the great sins and indecencies, and whenever they are angry they forgive.
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Wednesday, March 2, 2011
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